T.G.I.M: Live life with no excuses

Be stronger than your strongest excuse.

Excuses tend to get us out of  many, many messes. It covers our asses when we need it most and gives us a reason for not wanting to or not doing something we know we should have done in the first place. The problem with this? Excuses can become little road blocks preventing us from moving forward towards our goals.

My alarm wakes me at 7:00a. I open my eyes and think to myself, ” I really don’t feel like getting up and studying. I am so comfy and could actually use a little extra sleep … I mean, I didn’t really get enough sleep the night before because … because of ..my dog. He kept me up so late that night. My body needs to catch up on some rest and plus I have time later to study.” I hit “snooze” and go back to sleep.

This is absolutely legit and is something I struggle with almost every other morning. Since I really don’t sleep well at night, it is incredibly difficult to wake up in the morning. Especially to study. This is where I am failing to see the big picture and many of you are as well, (I know i’m not the only one who does this).

It isn’t about the studying or the sleeping, it’s about your goals, your dreams. It’s about doing whatever you have to do and whatever it takes to get you closer to reaching your goals. It is about what you have planned for your life. You can’t allow your excuses to become bigger than your goals! Tell those excuses to go f**k off and get to work! Build a life you can be proud of and a life that makes you happy. Learn to ignore those little excuses that your brain creates and learn to push past them. Look at the big picture and in my case, get out of bed. If your goal is to lose weight, wake up early and get that morning workout in before work. Save us all from listening to the perfect excuse you have created convincing yourself that you will do it later because we both know that wont happen! Trust me, I’ve been there and done that. If you are trying to grow your business then get out into the world and network your ass off. Don’t let your lacking skill-set excuse you from working hard. Teach yourself ways to improve your skill-set and then work harder. Wake up, work hard, and get it done! No excuses.

Be stronger than your excuses.

-mk

 

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T.G.I.M: 8 Tips to help you Self Motivate!

8 Tips to help you Self Motivate!

Self motivation can be very difficult for many of us and trust me nobody is perfect! We all suffer from a lack of motivation. That’s why learning how we can encourage positive motivation in our lives is important! Below are a few things you can do to help you along the path of self motivation!

  1. Get Started!

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If you want to achieve any particular goal in life you have to make that first step! You have to get started and begin working towards what you want to achieve. Push that ball and get it rolling my friend!

  1. K.I.S.S

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I know we have all heard this acronym throughout our years in school! The second step to help you self motivate is simple, literally!

Keep

It

Simple

Stupid!

Keep any and all motivators around you at all times. Pictures, quotes, jewelry, notebooks, etc can all be motivators that help spark your motivation! Keep them with you at home, in your car, and at work!

  1. Keep Company with People Who Uplift You

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Have you ever heard the phrase “keep good company”? I am sure we all have and those are words to live by! You are only as good as the company you keep. It is very easy to get caught up in the web of destruction negative people weave. The best way to self motivate is to have positive motivation around you and that involves the people you spend your time with: family AND friends. When you surround yourself with people who uplift you and provide a positive and motivational atmosphere, self motivation comes naturally!

  1. Positivity is Key!

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No, that glass is not half empty, it’s half full! See? Looking for the positive side to any situation will create a motivating atmosphere for you! You need to learn how to look for solutions to a problem and if it’s something you can’t control don’t dwell on it! Let it go. The one thing you can control is your attitude, so get a grip!

  1. Don’t Over-think!

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Stop thinking … just do! There are times where you should think about the different aspects of making certain decisions but, when it comes to achieving your goals and maintaining a high level of motivation you need to stop over-thinking! Take a leap of faith! Don’t be afraid to take that first step towards what you want in life! JUMP!

  1. The one person who knows you best is YOU!

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You know what makes you tick and what makes you … not tick. Even if you’re not sure what motivates you, you can learn! Try keeping a log or journal. Write down notes on the days where you are suffering with a lack of motivation AND write down notes on the days where you are more motivated than ever! Take notes of specific things motivate you and what brings you down. Over time you will notice what works and what doesn’t and will be able to create a plan that promotes better self motivation!

  1. Keep Track of Progress

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Keep a list of the projects you are currently working on. Also, keep a brief description of how far along you are on that project. Wherever we see growth or progress therein motivation lies! The best way to complete a project is seeing how we are progressing!

  1. We rise by lifting others!

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I use this quote quite a lot in my blog posts because I truly believe that by lifting others up we find self growth! It’s rewarding and motivating. Work with others who have similar goals as you. Talk to people and motivate them to reach their goals. You and the people you help will find that self motivation will come naturally when you see others achieve success!

Apply these to your daily routine whenever you need help in the motivation department!

Happy Monday Everyone!

-mk