T.G.I.M: Live life with no excuses

Be stronger than your strongest excuse.

Excuses tend to get us out of  many, many messes. It covers our asses when we need it most and gives us a reason for not wanting to or not doing something we know we should have done in the first place. The problem with this? Excuses can become little road blocks preventing us from moving forward towards our goals.

My alarm wakes me at 7:00a. I open my eyes and think to myself, ” I really don’t feel like getting up and studying. I am so comfy and could actually use a little extra sleep … I mean, I didn’t really get enough sleep the night before because … because of ..my dog. He kept me up so late that night. My body needs to catch up on some rest and plus I have time later to study.” I hit “snooze” and go back to sleep.

This is absolutely legit and is something I struggle with almost every other morning. Since I really don’t sleep well at night, it is incredibly difficult to wake up in the morning. Especially to study. This is where I am failing to see the big picture and many of you are as well, (I know i’m not the only one who does this).

It isn’t about the studying or the sleeping, it’s about your goals, your dreams. It’s about doing whatever you have to do and whatever it takes to get you closer to reaching your goals. It is about what you have planned for your life. You can’t allow your excuses to become bigger than your goals! Tell those excuses to go f**k off and get to work! Build a life you can be proud of and a life that makes you happy. Learn to ignore those little excuses that your brain creates and learn to push past them. Look at the big picture and in my case, get out of bed. If your goal is to lose weight, wake up early and get that morning workout in before work. Save us all from listening to the perfect excuse you have created convincing yourself that you will do it later because we both know that wont happen! Trust me, I’ve been there and done that. If you are trying to grow your business then get out into the world and network your ass off. Don’t let your lacking skill-set excuse you from working hard. Teach yourself ways to improve your skill-set and then work harder. Wake up, work hard, and get it done! No excuses.

Be stronger than your excuses.

-mk

 

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Living with Responsibilities

“I have a lot on my plate.”

This is certainly a phrase I have not used much of in my life leading up to now. I am a server which allows extra time in my schedule for things I enjoy doing. I love that! Starting next month, in November, my world is about to change. I am sitting here looking at all of my responsibilities and it has grown from little to A LOT! It is difficult not to get overwhelmed.

I wrote a blog post a while back about balancing your time with work, friends, family, and school. I wrote about how it is impossible to balance, instead you must counterbalance all of your activities. There is no time like now to “walk the walk” if i’m gonna “talk the talk”. It’s time to learn how to counterbalance.

I need to keep my goals in mind 24/7 and constantly remind myself why I started in the first place! I have to keep in mind the person I want to be!

The month of November brings on life changes including studying for my certification as a Personal Trainer and prepping for a bikini contest in march all while working to pay my bills and writing for my blog and Clinical Sports Labs.

If you have any pointers in organizing time efficiently I would love some advice!

Wish me luck!

Check out my post on counter-balance now by clicking the link below!

http://fitlifemk.com/2015/06/15/achieving-balance-in-an-unbalanced-world-is-it-possible/

Meagan

TGIM: “It does not matter how slowly you go”

“It does not matter how slowly you go, as long as you do not stop.”

-Confucius

“When it comes to reaching your goals you have to realize that it truly doesn’t matter how quickly or slowly you accomplish them, as long you don’t stop… As long as you don’t give up. Take baby steps if you need to but keep pushing forward. Keep making moves to get closer to those goals. I truly believe that anything is possible in this world and the only limitations that stand in your way are the ones you allow. ”

-Meagan Kunisch

This is a preview of what I post on my Instagram page. Yesterday I posted this on my page and I felt the need to share it with you today for my TGIM post. Save this quote if you need to and keep it with you wherever you go. It truly doesn’t matter how slowly you go just don’t ever give up!

TGIM – Time to reassess your goals!

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Have you ever wondered where motivation comes from? Think about it.

You have a test that you really, really need to pass! You write down a game plan, execute it and succeed! (woo-hoo!) If it wasn’t for how badly you wanted to reach that goal … do you think you would have worked so hard for it? The answer is probably not.

Are there goals you have set in your life that you haven’t reached yet? Maybe it’s time to re-assess those goals. Are they goals you truly believe in working towards? or, are they goals that you wanted at one point but no longer care to reach?

Don’t feel bad in admitting that fact, it happens to everyone! What you want today may not be exactly what you want tomorrow. There is no reason to waste your time working towards a goal that you feel 50% about. Right?

Make today the day that you re-assess the goals you have made. Erase the goals you no longer feel 100% about and create new ones. If there are goals you still feel passionately about maybe take a look at the action steps and create new game plan! Sometimes we get lost and just need a fresh start to get back on track!

Have you ever been in this position before? What is a goal that you used to have that you kind of lost interest in? What goal did you replace it with?

-mk

“With ever new day we are born again.” – Buddha

T.G.I.M – Don’t wait too late to do what makes YOU happy!

Too many people let their lives fly by without doing what they really wanted to do. Don’t let the clutter in your life block your vision. All of those things you want to do .. make plans to do them. Make a list, a bucket list, and slowly check each one off throughout your life. Enjoy your life. See all of the beautiful things the world has to offer and embrace the warmth, the happiness.

Here are a few things I want to do in my lifetime:

  1. Inspire someone to change
  2. skydive
  3. visit a country I have never been to before
  4. compete in a fitness competition
  5. have my very own fitness spread in a magazine
  6. have a chance to educate kids about health and wellness

Your list can be literally anything!

Don’t wait too late to do things you have always wanted to do.

Start today!

-mk

I. AM. HUMAN: The Disappearance of Motivation

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“The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of all.”

I’m sitting here on my couch, sipping on a warm cup of coffee and listening to “The Today Show” all while I look at my blog and wonder where my motivation went. Isn’t it strange how you can start something like a fitness routine or in my case a blog with an amazing amount of motivation to keep it going and then one day you lose it? It is pretty perplexing to me seeing as how it’s something I really enjoy doing.

But guess what … here’s why it happens:

I. AM. HUMAN.

or you can read it like this:

YOU. ARE. HUMAN.

That’s really it. While there are thousands of very motivated and inspiring individuals out there, not everyone is the same. Where one person might be highly self motivated another may not be. These people, like myself, have to look for inspiration that will jumpstart our motivation from something inward or outward.

Just because you experience this odd disappearance of motivation doesn’t mean you failed, I’ll say it again:

YOU. DID. NOT. FAIL.

A lack of motivation is not failure. Failure to notice this lack of motivation and not creating a plan to get back on track is failure. If you aren’t aware of your lack of motivation you wont ever feel the need to make changes. Without creating a game plan to get back on track … you wont ever progress.

  1. Recognize that you have a problem: Lack of motivation
  2. Create a game plan to get back on track
  3. Make a note of why you veered off path before (laziness, school, responsibilities, etc)
  4. Execute your game plan!

As long as you dedicate yourself to getting back on track, you will not fail.

That goes for everything in life: addictions, fitness routines, diets, work, blogs, writing, drawing, etc. Sometimes you just have to recognize what the problem is and where the problem came from in order to create a fresh game plan to get you back on track towards your goals!

-mk

T.G.I.M: How to Look at Monday in a Whole New Light!

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Monday; the day of the week everyone seems to share so much disdain for. Why is that? Maybe you hate your job … or, maybe it’s because it is the first day of the week making it the day furthest away from our freedom (aka Friday)? Maybe you hate Mondays because you have the hardest time “gettin’ goin’” for the week ahead. Either way, everyone seems to have some sort of negative feelings towards Monday.

Try looking at Monday in a completely different light:

Monday; a fresh start. The day of the week where you can take care of the things you couldn’t accomplish last week. Maybe last week you made some mistakes or maybe made the wrong decisions … Monday forgives. Monday allows you to start over new; to start over fresh and rejuvenated. So what if you went off track with your diet and fitness regimen last week. Enjoy it, let it go, and get back on track Monday. With each new day comes a new start.

“With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

It’s amazing how when you change your thoughts your whole world can change.

“A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks he becomes.” – Mahatma Gandhi

Question:

  • What do you do Monday morning to get yourself motivated for the week?
  • Starting my morning with a fresh cup of coffee & positive thoughts always sets me straight for the day & week ahead!

-mk